Staying Confident After Your Decision to be a WAHM

Now that you are a WAHM you have probably ran into someone that has asked you “So when are you going to get a real job?” That question really can hurt, specially when you are working harder as a WAHM then if you were out working away from home. Here are just a few tips on dealing with those comments.

The most important thing to remember is that alot of people have not clue how many ways there is to really make money from home. If they have never researched working from home, the only time they have ever even heard about WAHMs is hearing about all the work from home scams. And although their words may have really hurt you they are probably just trying to protect you.

If the person asking you this question is someone that you do not see on a regular basis, you can just try to laugh off the question and change the subject. However, if the person is someone you are close to and have quite a bit of contact with, try to educate them about your business. Explain to them what it is that you do, how much you enjoy it, and why you chose to work at home versus working in a traditional job.

Once your critic understands that working at home is a real option and that you are not involved in a scam, they will most likely be supportive of your decision. They may end up being a little jealous of you and wish they had the courage to leave their job and work from home, too!

Never let anyone make you feel worthless, just because you work from home. It does not matter if you work in your living room or if you work in a corner office over looking New York City, you are still a working mom contributing to your family. And that makes you a wonderful role model to your children. Keeping your confidence high will make you more successful in all aspects of your life.

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Comments

  1. Erika says:

    Excellent post and your advice is very sound. It can be so hard for WAHMs when people who don’t understand that we’re still professionals have the attitude that we’re sitting home stuffing envelopes. I love your point about being a good role model for our children. Beautifully done!

  2. admin says:

    Thank you Erika, for posting your comment! I am so glad this post was a blessing to you. :)

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